change: You either adapt to it, or you get left behind....

Why is it that we are scared of change, why is it that we hesitate at the thought of something different that we are not used to, why is it that we feel skeptical at taking a step into something that we believe will change how we live, how we think, how we feel... But change is something that we just can't avoid, it's one of those things that we need to find a way to accept, as a human species we have evolved and become smarter, become more articulate, but with all that change we are still afraid of taking a step that can change our lives, we hesitate at making a big purchase, we hesitate at the thought of knowing that someone that you deeply care about expresses the same feelings and wants to form a lifelong bond. Why is it that we feel that way? Would we be more accepting if the change happened and we had no say in the change, but unfortunately being human means we have the ability to choose, we have the power to choose our choices, that is what makes us human and it's the transition towards accepting change that makes us even stronger. We change as we grow up and growing up is painful, we undergo lots of emotions, we feel overwhelmed with the thought of what's to come as we continue to grow. And we find change which comes with growing to be something that we are afraid of stepping into and sometimes accepting change can be the greatest thing you do because it just changes you to a better person and to experience new things, so I say accept change, I say grow and love change and not take things too seriously or you may just get left behind, in a sea of uncertainty of what could have been if you had decided to accept the change.